It’s been a while since I wrote a blog post from the heart. I want to have a real heart to heart with my readers. A lot of people are going through emotional pain because they don’t feel valuable or valued. If that’s you, I want to let you know that you are valuable. You very valuable. You are valuable simply because you exist. There is no one else on this earth quite like you; not even your twin, if you have one.


So many people are hurting because rather than believe in themselves, they determine their value by what other people believe about them. I use to be that way and I turned into an emotional wreck trying to please people that didn’t even value me. It left me deeply insecure and I felt unworthy. I didn’t know that I had the power within me to change those thoughts. I didn’t realise it was up to me change my own thoughts about my value.


So I began a journey of self-discovery. I experienced an aha moment and I realised the following

I don’t need to have long titles to be valuable.

I don’t need to be popular to be valuable.

I dont need to be dressed in the latest designers to be valuable.

I don’t need to earn a six figure salary to be valuable.

I don’t need to have millions of followers to be valuable.

I just needed to believe that my value comes from the inside of me and I am valuable because I exist. Once I had this epiphany, I didnt have to beat myself up trying to prove my value to myself or anyone.  I accepted myself and my uniqueness and then I was able to see my value.


So my dear reader, I don’t want you to feel that you have no value just because of how others perceive you. You are unique. You are special. You are one of a kind.  I want you to dust yourself, walk tall and carry yourself with an assurance and confidence that you are indeed valuable because you are.

With love always



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